Let's Get Crystal Clear On What You Want In the New Year!

Most people know exactly what they don’t want, but struggle with identifying what they do. Sound familiar? Why is it so difficult to think about what you want to have happen in the new year?

No one wants to repeat 2020! You don’t want to experience anymore loss, or keep waiting for the next bad thing to happen. You're anxious to get back to work to climb out of the debt that accumulated in the pandemic or throughout the holiday season. Your clothes fitting tightly has gotten old. You're exhausted from arguing with your partner. You don’t want to wake up feeling tired and uninspired.

Are you with me?

Yes, you are. I know you are.

How do I know this?

Because I have 18 years experience working with people who come to me looking for relief from things they don’t want anymore. The first thing I direct their attention to is what they do want.

You see, we manifest more of whatever has our attention. So, if we continue to think about what we don’t want, we are actually manifesting more of it. We all know at least one person who claims they have the worst luck ever. Every time you see this person they go on and on about their current problem. And they always have some kind of a problem. It’s as if trouble finds them. In reality, their thoughts always reflect the worst-case scenario. Their attention is always focused on the problem, rather than the solutions. Their energy is negative.

This is not a coincidence.

To bring about the change you want to see, it starts with shifting our thoughts toward the outcome we want from the one we are trying to avoid. For many people this is a difficult thing to do. Focusing on the positive feels uneasy, even somewhat scary. Doesn’t it seem ridiculous to think it feels more comfortable to keep our thoughts on the negative; the opposite of what we actually want?

It’s because what we know, is what is familiar. What is familiar feels comfortable and safe. To shift our thoughts toward what we want, but do not yet have means we are venturing off into the unknown. We are considering a possibility, but because we do not have it YET, we are skeptical to even consider we could.

You deserve clarity. You have every right to let yourself consider each and every possibility. Get quiet with yourself and let that little voice inside you speak. Write down all of the random thoughts and messages that pop into your head. ALL OF THEM! Bring them to your next scheduled session, and let’s bring them into clear focus!

When I got really clear on what I wanted, I saw what it was costing me to not follow my heart to do the things that I loooooonngggged to do. I wanted an end to the emptiness and regret. 

I’m ready! Are you?